I’ve been speaking about beliefs in the last couple of blogs and how many people don’t realise what an important role they play in our lives. They actually affect our actions and what we can achieve. They reside deep in our subconscious and are mainly forgotten about.
In previous blogs I’ve covered limiting beliefs around money and health/weight. In this blog, we’ll explore the area of relationships, specifically if you’re single and finding it hard to meet the right person.
Many people have a difficult time finding the right partner. It’s hard to trust again if your heart’s been broken by someone – can you handle going through that pain again? You may actually close your heart to being loved and then wonder why you attract the wrong people.
Our beliefs affect our vibration. If deep down you doubt you’ll ever meet the right person, then that is a vibration you’re emitting all the time. It’s like you’re carrying it with you constantly. You may go on dates but because of that hidden, limiting belief you may wonder why you always attract the wrong people.
Our thoughts, feeling and our bodies are always vibrating at certain frequencies which determine what we attract into our life. So removing beliefs which prevent what you desire coming into your life is essential to creating the right vibration to attract what you do want.
I’ve written more about this in my eBook Manifesting From the Soul – How to Raise Your Vibration & Unleash the Power Within. So buy a copy now to delve more deeply into how your beliefs and vibration affect your life and what you can achieve.
In terms of relationships. find some time to write down your beliefs about yourself and being in a relationship, e.g.
- I don’t like myself, so how can anyone else like me?
- All the good ones are taken.
- I always pick losers, that will never change.
- I’m not loveable, how can I find the right partner?
- I’ll have to give up my freedom and time if I’m in a relationship.
- I’m not worthy or deserving of love.
- I’ll never find “the One” so what’s the point.
Can you see that beliefs like this, which you’re emitting all the time subconsciously, prevent you from finding the best partner for yourself? Your beliefs are proving to you that being in a relationship isn’t the right thing for you and so you wonder why you attract the wrong type of person or you never get called for a second date.
The good news is that we can remove these sorts of limiting beliefs and replace them with more empowering ones by means of say creative visualisation meditation.
Set aside some time and write your beliefs around being in a relationship. Decide which ones are holding you back (e.g. “All the good ones are taken.”) and which are empowering.
Write down the ones you want to eliminate. Find some quiet time and breathe deeply to get into a relaxed state. See a golden or violet flame of light around your body burning away those limiting beliefs.
You can also visualise a sword cutting through energy cords between you and old relationships/partners however long ago they were. This is about clearing all the negative energy you have around you regarding relationships.
As the flame burns away the old energies, visualise yourself in your ideal relationship. See yourself with that amazing partner, doing the things you love to do together.
Feel your heart opening to receive their love and trust it’s safe to do so. Feel the smile on your face and inside all your cells as you embrace being in this wonderful relationship.
After the meditation, rip up the paper with those old beliefs to symbolise they are gone.
Then create affirmations for the new beliefs you want to install, such as the ones below but word them in a way which resonates with you.
- There’s are so many people out there, I can find the right person for me.
- I am loveable and worthy and deserving of being in a wonderful relationship.
- I am ready to meet my perfect partner.
- I open my heart for love to flow into my life and trust that I am always safe.
When it comes to affirmations, say them with feeling, truly believe them and start to create the belief, the neuronal groove in your brain that this is true.
Say them with joyful feeling and gusto every day, don’t just say them in a meek, mild way. Walk around as if they are true now.
People walk around with joy in their step when they’ve met the right partner. Act like that now and see your posture change as you do this. Maybe you smile more and exude more happiness.
You can create a vision board. Put up pictures of romance, maybe photoshop yourself with an ideal partner walking along a beach. Have fun with this. These pictures go into your subconscious mind which then starts to hold your new beliefs about being in a relationship.
It can be hard to believe that the right person is out there for you but that’s probably because your subconscious is holding beliefs preventing them from coming into your life.
So spend time removing those limiting beliefs and replacing them with empowering beliefs around love and relationships to attract your ideal partner into your life.
If you enjoy these blogs, read my eBook “Ascending Into The Light: Messages From The Angels“ or listen to my podcast EnlightOne.
I have 3 guided meditations on YouTube you can listen to become more focused and present in the moment.
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